With 19 years of experience, I am only getting the gist of it i.e. life. It is ever changing and unique to every individual. This is its nature and this is why one cannot simply just copy a solution from someone else’s life and paste it to their own situation.
We are all original, unique, and different. Unfortunately, so many people are caught up trying to be someone else. They are miserable because they can never be that other person. Too many people compare their lives to other people’s lives and they are unhappy because they will never match up.
Until we appreciate that we are different from everyone else, until we learn to accept ourselves for who we are and what we are, we will never be happy. We can only achieve success and satisfaction when we do what we were created to do and not try and copy what someone else is doing.
God did not make a mistake when he made you. You are perfect for exactly what God set you out to be.
Jeremiah 1 vs 5: “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations.” Just like Jeremiah, God knew your purpose before you came into existence. It is only when we stop living other people’s lives, when we stop comparing ourselves to other people that we can find success and satisfaction when we realise our God given destiny.
“[There’s] no such thing as a life that’s better than yours.” ~ J Cole- Love Yours